A PRIVATE MEMBERS’ CLUB
For members and friends of SoCal’s ENM community who value a safe space for free expression.
Where enlightened couples and individuals come together to cultivate new connections.
Create a profile on our Club’s membership platform.
The process is quick, and does not require payment information.
Once reviewed & approved, you can choose to become an active membership and participate with other members of our Club.
There is no cost associated with nor payment info requested to apply/creating a profile.
Who we are
Welcome to Club BIA Vida, an exclusive Social Club for those who share our appreciation for non-conventional relationships, freedom of expression, and safe spaces to facilitate relationship and connection building.
Club Bia Vida is a private social club and membership is required to participate in Club sponsored social gatherings, parties, socials and most other activities organized and hosted by Bia Vida Productions.
Our primary purpose is to destigmatize and celebrate non-conventional relationships through providing safe spaces for those in the community to connect with other like minded individuals and strengthen the core relationships in their lives.
We proudly collaborate with esteemed Lifestyle advocates within the Non-Monogamy/Lifestyle community; working diligently to produce safe and healthy lifestyle events for this diverse and growing community. Whilst our collaborations take us all over the country, Club BIA Vida is based in and operates in Southern California.
We staunchly advocate for our rights as free Americans and believe that organizing and embracing our chosen lifestyle should always be safeguarded. Rest assured, we will continue to champion our community’s rights.
Our Vision
Safe Space – Guidelines & Boundaries
Consent. Consent. Consent! Verbal Consent is Always required. Respect others personal space and head space! One No is enough.
Comfortable Space AT YOUR PACE
Generally, our gatherings are clothing optional (given the space and climate permitting). We do not mandate nudity, but generally have a “bare as you dare” approach. Check out our “What to expect” section for more specifics.
INCLUSIVITY & SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE
Participating in the lifestyle is not a requirement for membership! Just an acceptance and appreciation for the ENM community and our fresh and free spirit and spaces.
We realize the ENM & Lifestyle adjacent community is wildly diverse. Not every social engagement and party will appeal to every one of our members. We strive for inclusivity while simultaneously offering a variety of environments and themes to appeal to the various niches within the community.
MEMBERSHIP REQUIREMENT
An active membership is required to attend any of our Club parties. As a private members club we are better able to preserve members anonymity and have discretionary freedom to be selective about who shares these intimate spaces.
We do collaborate on social meet & greets that do not require Club membership.
We have no gender, age, ethnicity, appearance or any other discriminatory bases for approving members.
WHAT TO EXPECT
WHAT YOU’LL FIND
F.A.Q
Yes, Club BIA Vida is a Private, Members-Only, Social Club. Club parties & activities are solely for the enjoyment of our members and are not for the general public.
The first step is to apply to join. Just create a free profile on our members platform. We will review your profile, and approve or deny it. Make sure to read & adhere to the minimum requirements or we’ll have to deny your profile and have you reapply.
Once your profile is approved you’re eligible to attend select free Member Socials, and can choose to become a premium member and access the online community and Club party information.
The choice is always yours. We are clothing optional, we do not mandate full nudity. We’ve got a “bare as you dare” motto for most parties. Any parties with a different approach will be plainly described as such
Some organizers have a specific “home base” where there events are held, but most organize events in different locations each time to try and reach as many of you as possible. We have partner events coming up in Hollywood, Pasadena area, the Inland Empire/Temecula, and San Diego just to name a few!
Our parties are BYOB, so yes you can bring and consume alcohol. We do not serve alcohol, but we do allow it.
Please consume responsibly, we have no tolerance for public inebriation. If your going to be in the pool area, consider bringing your beverage of choice in a plastic container. We do not allow glass near the pool, and encourage personal drinking flasks.
Availability of lockers depends on the party location. We recommend leaving your valuables at home or in your car when possible. Most places have lockers, although it is not uncommon for members to simply keep their belongings with them near their lounge at pool parties.
Doctors, Lawyers, Teachers, Engineers, Programmers, Contractors, Managers, Business Owners, Military Personal, you name the career, and there’s a high probability that they’re represented within the lifestyle community! The LS community is truly a diverse community of people from all sorts of different cultural, educational, and economic backgrounds. Some couples are nudist first and foremost, others are mostly or entirely voyeurs’ or exhibitionists’, and many of our LS compatriots are looking for likeminded couples to link up with. There is no pressure nor expectations of anyone to do anything (aside from BIA), but beyond that you do you!
LGBTQ+ Members –Welcome! While we are primarily a couples’ club, we also welcome singles. Please note that you will need to register as a member with whatever your legal ID shows. We are happy to add a nickname or preferred name. Once you are registered and have agreed with and acknowledged our privacy agreement, you may attend and pay for any events using the gender you associate as. Please email for any specific questions or clarification to: contact.us@bialsclub.com
We’ve got quite a variety of ages represented! With about 50% 35-55, and about 50% 45-65. Check out our pie chart! Values are approximations, and cannot be guaranteed on any given day.
Age Representations
We provide drink mixers (juice and soda), light snacks, ICE, plastic cups, towels, a microwave and community fridge, and lockers for your valuables. You bring your beverages of choice, a cooler if you desire, food if you desire, and a lock for the lockers. Some choose to bring their own towels and robe which is of course allowed.
Honestly, it doesn’t really matter as our pool parties are fully nude. Yes, if your a little shy you can keep a towel wrapped around you until your brave enough to join in and B.I.A (bare it all). Ladies, we’re well aware that there are days running around without bottoms on just isn’t going to happen, or at least not comfortably or happily. Don’t worry, we’re not going to embarrass you by making a big stink of it, nor are we going to kick you out. Lover of sexy lingerie? We hear you girl! Once the sun has set and most people have migrated to the pool table or party room this is your time to bust out your little sexy number!
Pool Parties: BYOB (no glass by the pool), Personal Drinking Flask(s), Towels, and Robes during cooler months. Cooler, sunscreen, lock sunglasses etc.
BYOB if you plan on consuming alcohol responsibly. A personal Flask or drinking bottle (non-glass containers). Towel, Hat, sunglasses, & sunscreen are always a smart choice for poolside hangouts. Coolers and outside food and drinks are usually welcomed. For colder evenings, we suggest bringing a robe for post jacuzzi time.
For “Club” Parties: BYOB, no mixers needed, appropriate attire including collared shirt for men, lock for locker (also available for rent).
Think Sexy Classy attire. BYOB, there are usually bars and bar tenders who will hold onto your drinks and mix one up for you when asked. Your beverages are yours alone, they will not be given to others without your consent, nor will you be offered other guests beverages.
Only you know how you’ll likely be enjoying your time with us. If you like to dance, bring those dancin’ shoes, if you like to get intimately acquainted with other couples be responsible and come prepared! We don’t judge, whatever your flavor of play and accompanying accessory, bring it along and do your thing sexy!
Memberships
AND PRICING
Why Memberships
As a private club, all parties and events will be for members only. Memberships may be purchased as an individual or a couple. One month recurring memberships are available, renewing monthly until cancelled. Longer “single term” memberships are also available, these are not auto-renewed. Once you have been approved and your membership activated, you will also have unlimited access to our members only platform.
Bring your photo ID on your first visit to verify your members card photo and names match your ID.
Apply to Join
Apply to JoinCreate a free profile on our platform, this will serve as the application process for approval to join the club. Be sure to fulfill all basic requirements or your profile will be denied.
Once it has been reviewed and accepted you will receive a message clarifying the status of your profile. Approved, declined, or approved conditionally, with change requests highlighted.
Activate your Membership
Once approved, you can activate your premium membership, reserve passes, see party details, and network on our membership platform.
* Active Membership AND Donation required to attend Club parties and activities.
VIP MEMBERSHIPS
As a members only club, everyone who attends an event or gathering will be required to have an active premium membership. Beyond these basic memberships we also offer a 1-Year VIP FLEX Membership and are currently currating a “Wellness Center VIP Membership”
EVENT PLANNING
We got the space, you make the party
Looking to host an intimate gathering, planning to throw the most banging birthday/anniversary party possible, or just got a head full of ideas and a long standing itch to try your hand at organizing a lifestyle party. Our desire has always been to provide uniquely exceptional spaces for the LS community event organizers and party hosts to do what they do best!
